Listen to today’s devotional A Growing Friendship October 9, 2026 James 4:4-10 I’ve been thinking a lot about friendship. Around Del Rio, we have a whole lake reminding us of it. Lake Amistad. Friendship. That’s a good word to live near. An even better word to live into. Then James comes along and makes friendship sound dangerous: “Friendship with the world is enmity with God.” Well, there goes being friendly. But before we start making a list of people to avoid, James wants us to look at our hearts. He calls us “double-minded.” That is, we say we want to draw near to God, but we also want to hold on to whatever gets us our way. Do you know the feeling? I want God to shape my life. I just have a few things I want God to leave alone. But friendship means something. The people closest to us have a way of influencing us. We begin to notice what matters to them. Their concerns become our concerns. Shouldn’t friendship with God do something like that? If I’m drawing near to God, would...
Listen to today’s devotional Care Without Control October 8, 2026 1 Peter 5:1-5 I don’t mind giving advice, mostly. It’s when people don’t take it that I get a little frustrated. Especially when I’m sure I’m right, I can't help but wonder why you even asked me to begin with. All I'm trying to do is help. At least, that’s what I tell myself. I can't help but wonder, though, that maybe I really just want to get my way. First Peter tells church leaders to care for God’s flock without lording authority over people. Did you catch the important part there? It's God's flock. The people leaders care for do not belong to them. That’s worth reflecting on even if you’ve never led a church. We all have some influence in someone’s life. Our children. Our friends. Someone at work. People who trust us enough to ask what we think. Yes, that trust means something, but it doesn’t make their decisions ours. The hard part in all this is offering advice and wisdom without deciding eve...